Elizabeth Howe (1744-1829)
I grew up hearing from my mother that Elizabeth Howe Stone, my 4th great-grandmother, was born at the Wayside Inn. She was not just making up this family legend. We have DAR (Daughters of the American Revolution) research papers that gave us the information.
Nevertheless, I may have to let go of this little family legend. The historian at the Wayside Inn tells me she can’t verify that information. But I still believe it is possible.
The Howe Family Sudbury Taverns
Various members of the Howe Family operated an inn in Sudbury Massachusetts between 1716 and 1861. It gained fame in 1862 when Longfellow published “Tales of the Wayside Inn.” You’re going to be hearing a lot more about the Wayside Inn throughout the summer as I lead up to my trip to Sudbury in September. It is now a historic site run by the Ford Foundation, but still functions as an Inn–the oldest in the country.
When Elizabeth was born, in 1744, her uncle, Ezekiel Howe, had taken over the original Howe’s Tavern and renamed it The Red Horse Tavern. The baby Elizabeth’s father was Israel Howe, Ezekiel’s brother.
Perhaps by coincidence, Elizabeth was to grow up and marry Jeduthan Stone, who probably was related to Ezekiel’s wife, Bathesheba Stone. The town of Sudbury was knee-deep in families that are in my background — particularly Stones and Howes — so there are a lot of interwoven skeins of family lines.
According to the Massachusetts Town Records (1620-1850)–a summary rather than the original records–Elizabeth Howe was born in Rutland, Massachusetts. Later records show that her family must have lived in a portion of Rutland that later split off to form the new town of Paxton.
Her father, Israel, grew up around the How/Howe family tavern on the Boston Road in the small town of Sudbury. She was named for her mother, Elizabeth Hubbard Howe (whom I will introduce next week) who came from Marlborough, a few miles west of Sudbury along the Boston Road.
Elizabeth Howe was the third child in the family. The first, Israel Jr., died when Elizabeth was just one year old (he was only four). She also had an older sister Lucy. She also had younger sisters Ruth and Rebecca and a half sister.
When Elizabeth was only four years old, Israel Howe died. Soon after, her mother married Stephen Barrett and they had a daughter, Lydia.
In January 1773, at age 28, Elizabeth Howe married Jeduthan Stone, who was four years younger. As we have seen in looking at Jeduthan and their oldest daughter Elizabeth Stone (Bassett) , she was pregnant when she married Jeduthan. Hot blooded at 28 and pursuing a younger man?
When her baby daughter was a year and a half old, Jeduthan marched off to participate in the American Revolution. It must have been worrisome days, but Elizabeth continued to give birth fairly regularly between battles and after Jeduthan returned to farm in Massachusetts.
- Elizabeth, the first child, in 1773, married William Bassett in 1804 and moved to Ohio. (Elizabeth’s step-Aunt Lydia Barrett married a relative of Jeduthan Stone named Israel Stone who also was an Ohio pioneer. See what I mean about tangled skeins?)
- Willard, born 1776. He married Polly Merriam in 1801, and after she died in 1829 married a woman named Nancy. He seems to have stayed in Rutland.
- Augustus, born in 1777, would have been a particular concern because he was nearly blind from birth. He did not marry until he was 31, in 1809. He married Thankful Banks and lived out his life as a productive farmer in the Rutland area and father to ten children. He married a second time in 1843.
- Patty, who never married was born in 1780. I speculate that she may have had health problems.
- Calvin was born in 1781. Married Elizabeth Estabrook in 1810.
- Lucy was born in 1783, and married Herman Foster in 1806 and remained in Rutland the rest of her life.
- Sally was probably a surprise, born in 1786, when Elizabeth was forty-two years old. She married Taylor Estabrook (possibly the brother of Calvin’s wife) in 1809. They also stayed in Rutland.
Although I have not yet traced the families of each of the children of Elizabeth How Stone, it is fair to assume they had large families, and since they all stayed in the area, Elizabeth probably enjoyed huge family gatherings with her grandchildren.
I imagine the women cooking over the open hearth, or perhaps in an attached kitchen building or outdoors as they celebrated holidays. I imagine that Independence Day was a very special occasion for them, since Grandpa Jeduthan had been a fighter in the Revolution, and many other men of Sudbury had fought for Independence.
It makes sense to me that Elizabeth Howe’s mother and father were visiting Sudbury when her mother went into labor, and the trip back home would have been too lengthy. Thus, the baby was born at the family Inn in Sudbury, but the birth was registered in their home town of Rutland.
Throughout her life, Elizabeth no doubt also traveled frequently to Sudbury, where many of their relatives lived. She would have visited the Wayside Inn with her family and they heard tales of how their mother/grandmother Elizabeth Howe was born there. I like knowing that when I first heard the story, it had been floating down through my family for more than 200 years.
Elizabeth Howe Stone died at the age of 85 in the town that by then was called Paxton. Her son Calvin had died at 46 years old in 1827. Jeduthan had passed away in March of 1829, and her first daughter–Elizabeth Stone Bassett–had died in September 1829 in far off Keene Ohio. Elizabeth Howe Stone, who had survived the death of one son and her husband, only lived one month after her daughter Elizabeth. But the story of her birthplace in a family inn stays alive.
How I am Related
- Vera Marie Badertscher is the daughter of
- Harriette Anderson Kaser, the daughter of
- Vera Stout Anderson, the daughter of
- Hattie Morgan Stout, the daughter of
- Mary Bassett Morgan, the daughter of
- Elizabeth Stone Basset, the daughter of
- Elizabeth Howe Stone.
Notes on Research
- Cemeteries of Ohio, Genealogical Publishing Com pg. 116 reproduces the words from the gravestones of several members of Stone families.
- Other details of relationships, birth and death dates come from records found through Ancestry.com NOTE: There is a record at FindaGrave that says Elizabeth’s Howe’s father was Capt. Paul Howe, and that misinformation is found in some other family trees as well. Capt. Paul Howe did have a daughter named Elizabeth based on a birth record, but it was NOT the Elizabeth that married Jeduthan Stone.
- “Old Northwest” Genealogical Quarterly, Volumes 5-6, p. 99 ed. by Lucius Carwell Herrick, available at Google Books.
- Research notes from Daughters of the American Revolution, prepared for my grandmother, Vera Stout Anderson probably in the 1930s or 1940s.
- Longfellow’s Wayside Inn, A Historama Booklet, (1975;2nd printing 1977) by Carole J. Maconi with Barbara Deveneau.
- Family tales and Bible records