DORCAS MIDDAUGH (1826-1904)
HERstory
EDITED September, 2024, with additional family information.
It would be great to be able to tell some new stories about Dorcas Middaugh Brink, my great-great grandmother. However, I already told you the major stories of that family when I wrote about Abraham Brink (1828).
That’s the story of women in history isn’t it? I didn’t know whether to laugh or cry when I saw a major newspaper’s coverage of the historic event that took place in Philadelphia yesterday (August, 2016). The headline read “With Nomination, Clinton Makes History“. Under the headline they published a huge photo of former President Bill Clinton. So the historic even was the nomination of a former president? Nah, it was that other Clinton–the WOMAN, Hillary Clinton. Oh, yeah, women make history, too.
Sorry Dorcas. My bad, as they say in the 21st century. I should have told the story of the birth of twelve children and the loss of six children, the growth of an Ohio farm and the perspective of my great-grandmother’s family from your viewpoint instead of from that of your husband, Abraham. But things being what they are, I have more information on him. So here’s what I know about you grandma.
A Woman’s Life
Dorcas Middaugh was born to Jedidiah Middaugh and Ann Coddington Middaugh in Danby Township, Tompkins County, New York on May 2, 1826. Danby was and is a small town south of Ithaca New York, not far north of the Pennsylvania border. Her father had been born in New Jersey, but her parents settled in New York when they married. Her family had Dutch roots on both sides, and it must have been a big change to leave the close Dutch community of what had been New Amsterdam for life in Ohio.
Dorcas had an older brother, and as she was growing up, at least two more brothers were added to the family. Sometime after 1840, the family moved to Holmes County, Ohio, where she met and married Abraham Brink. She was 18 years old when they married.
Her mother- and father-in-law, as well as her own father and mother lived nearby when she was a young bride, and as her children grew up, the families remained close.
1846. Her first child, Jedidiah, named for her father, was born before she was twenty.
1847. Elias, the 2nd child, died as an infant. Dorcas was still young, and although infant deaths were not uncommon, that loss had to be difficult. But she had a toddler to tend to, and soon was pregnant again.
1849. The first girl in the family got the pretty name Celestia.
1850. Another daughter,Sarah, joined the first two.
1852. Although records are contradictory about Katherine’s birth year, I believe 1852 is the actual date, since other dates conflict with birth dates of siblings. In 1860, her parents said she was 6 years old, and it is highly likely that they would mistake the age of a child under ten.
1854. The pattern of a girl every two years continued with the birth of Selestra .
1856. My great-grandmother Mary Viola Brink added to this household of mostly little girls. So many heads of hair to brush! How many braids to twist! How many ribbons! Seven year old Celestia and six-year-old Sarah were old enough to start helping with cooking and chores, and Jedidiah no doubt helped his father, but five small children were still a handful, creating laundry, a need for sewing and cooking more each year.
1860. Abe probably was relieved to see another boy born—another potential farm hand.
1862. The family greeted another boy, Jacob.
1864. In July a little girl was born and lived just long enough to get the name Alice. Dorcas was 38 years old, and had given birth to twelve children, and two of them had died in infancy.
1865. But the year of 1865 was to bring the kind of grief that a woman cannot imagine surviving. Beginning in March, some disease swept through the family and took the lives of 3- year-old- Jacob, 6-year-old Celestra, and 11-year-old Selestia. When those small bodies had been buried in the Wolf Creek Cemetery, and Abe and Dorcas perhaps thought the worst was over, teenager Moses, 15, died in May. Dorcas had lost half of the children she had delivered, most of them in the terrible Spring of 1865.
(I have been unable to find information about what specific epidemic or illness might have affected the Brink family.)
She had thirty-three years ahead of her of housekeeping as children grew, married, moved out, brought home grandchildren. Thirty-three more years with husband Abe before he died in 1898. A 54-year marriage was quite an accomplishment.
To fill in more details of Dorcas’ life —marriages of the oldest, and the birth of grandchildren–please read Abraham Brink Takes Root in Ohio.
After Abraham
When Abraham died in 1898, Dorcas went to live with her daughter Mary V. Brink, the widow of Joseph Anderson, in a nearby township in Holmes County, Ohio. My grandfather Guy Anderson and his bride Lillis shared the farmhouse with his mother, Mary. Since I knew my grandfather Guy (whose 2nd wife was my grandmother) and he lived for a couple of years in the same house with HIS grandmother, Dorcas, I feel a connection to Dorcas Middaugh Brink.
In 1900, when the census report was filed, Dorcas reported that she was a widow, had 12 children, but only six were living.
Lillis and Dorcas’ grandson, Leonard Guy Anderson (my maternal grandfather) had a daughter in 1901 (My aunt Rhema Anderson Fair) and a son in 1903. Lillis died of complications from childbirth in 1903.
In March of 1904, when she was 78 years old, Dorcas died and was buried in Wolf Creek Cemetery in Holmes County, near her husband Abe, and the six children she had laid to rest. Continue reading